Men!

Phew! What is it with some guys?? I just have to mention this, I got to work this morning after having a great weekend to find an email from a guy I went to school with and whom I caught up with a few years later and hung out with for a couple of years. He was in the Navy and I was working. We were both seeing other people at the time... so the timing just wasn't right, but there was definitely something there.

Anyway, we eventually lost touch until I bumped into him about 4 years ago and we swapped email addresses and have kept in touch via email since then. He is now married and has a 2 year old daughter. I only hear from him every so often and we exchange the odd "forward" email joke...

Anyway, the email from him that he had sent me at 1am Sunday morning (probably drunk) said how he wished we could go back to those days when he was in the Navy and we were hanging out together and that he just had to let me know that he had feelings for me back then but because he was with someone and I was with someone he didn't do anything about it, and that he kicks himself for never doing anything when he had the chance and that he just wanted me to know this. Why?!

Well, I really didn't want to know that!! I had to laugh... he is obviously not in a good place right now, or he was just really drunk and I was the first email address he could find! Either way, I thanked him and told him that things had turned out how they were meant to be and promptly reminded him of his wife and daughter... I am NOT in the habit of breaking up marriages...

My point?! Sometimes, you just have to accept the way things have turned out and not look book, aim to have no regrets, especially when it comes to men. If we had meant to be together, then it would have happened... I guess as a woman it is easier to see things in this light, men tend to look at things differently and when things aren't going so well at home, they tend to look back to when the grass was greener...

Be thankful for what you have and appreciate the finer things in life... that is what is meant to be!

Hugs, Mrs Handsome